How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 29.06.2025 01:41
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Ask yourself:
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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
What are the best ways to treat seasonal allergies?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
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Hangs out with loser friends.
Does not procrastinate.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
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Procrastinates a lot.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
How long did it take you to get used to your CPAP machine?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Do you think Andrew Tate and Nigel Farage are part of a "similar phenomenon"?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Making more friends is a goal.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
That's it for today.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
How do I run away? I'm 15 and live in Oklahoma.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Does any other guys get turned on by dick pic makes you lick lips because you what to suck?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Do not set goals—set systems.
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